Monday, January 27, 2014

My dad the Vet

January 24, 2014


Lunch with the folks:  Dad talked about his military service:
He joined the National Guard December 1949,   they held monthly meetings and trained twice a month at Camp Curtis in Wakefield/Reading Mass.   They also went to Camp Edwards for training two weeks out of the year. 

Camp Curtis was a firing range and they were trained on the Cannon, machine guns (75 Cal).   He was a Gunner for 105 House the first summer.   They also practiced using the Napalm Bombs (gas bombs). 

He spent his second summer at Camp Drum 2 weeks.

He (18 yrs old) then went into Boston with Ralph (Ralphie)  Murry (who was 17 and needed his dad’s signature) to sign up for the Air Force.  He had to wait for the discharge from the National Guard (it was late) and Ralphie had to wait for his dad to sign the paperwork as he was a minor.
Ralphie, who was being hounded by the recruiter to get to basic training and ended up going the day before dad went to sign.  He signed up   Dad never saw Ralphie in Basic Training until the 20 hour pass when his mom (Sarah Evelyn) and Ralph’s mother (Mrs. Murray) went down to see them.  That was the only time they saw each other while in the service.
(9/11/2024:  I just posted this little paragraph to Ralphs obit.  he passed in 2016).  


Basic training was held in Sampson Air Force Base in upper New York in the 1950’s they opened the old naval base for the Air Force Basic Training.  After basic training he went to Scott Air Force Base in Illinois. 
He Joined Oct 1 and was out of basic training the later part of December (8-10 weeks of training)  took a train to Scott AFB Right after.   The first class was in January and finished in August then was assigned to Shreveport Louisiana.  (SAC Base (Strategic Air Command) )  
Dad ran the post office boxes plus training during this time.  He had to wait a bit as they misfiled his records.  Barksdale Base he did Radio Repair
He worked with a fella who took care of incoming radar stuff, he was an electrician.  Dad worked on B29’s (Radar/ Radio’s)

He put in for Cadette training and was accepted,  he was sent to Waco Texas for 2 weeks for advanced training – parachute jumping.  

Then to Lackland AFB (preflight)

Assigned to Randolf for flight training prior to that he gave a urin sample and due to it being too dark he talked his buddy (Jogerson) into giving some of his to him so he would pass.  After second time the buddy said no and due to the next sample of urin he was sent to the hospital. 

On a side note Jogerson ended up across the hall from dad at the hospital, Jogerson had Arthritis.

He was in Ward B an open area.  He went to Chow hall every day then went back to his room and ate again.  He was caught and told to stay in bed. And he was put in his own room soon after .   Dad talked about a red headed guy with RA (rheumatoid arthritis) very nosy and new everyone’s business.  He was asking me if I wanted to know what the guy had that was just brought in.  he said he would not make it and it ended up being what I had … 

Dad was diagnosed with Frietis Kidney decease. (I have looked this up and have not found it.  I will have to check the spelling and get back to this. ) 

They flushed the kidneys out and he was in the hospital for a long time, (6 months)  He was 20 at the time.  They told him this was service connected and he had to stay in bed until release.    
He was back to duty and sent to Randolph Base for cadette training after the hospital.  He was discharged from the training program without prejudice.  He turned 21 and assigned to a job, lived on a base referred to as  West Point of the Air Force, it was built in the 1930’s, made of Stone and very nice. 
 B29’s (bombers) were there for flight training.  His job was pre/post flight check,   post flight was to check the gears ect, and pre flight was tougher,   they flew over the gulf of Mexico.  After one plane was lost flying over the Gulf of Mexico, the flyers started fixing it so the planes wouldn't have to fly, by breaking or damaging radar or radios.     the crew figured it out and put a stop to it.

Dad also talked about one of the pilots having him fly with him to get in his flight time.   They put a stop to that soon after. 


End of story for today.  

January 27, 2014

Monday...
Catch up day!
On January 22, 2014 I had lunch with Mom and Dad.  As dad was preparing lunch i asked mom if she was excited that Anna was coming over, she looked at me and shook her head yes.  Mom doesn't talk much, in fact she is very quiet.  Her sister (twin) is concerned as this is not like her.  This is the second sister that has suffered with Alzheimers.
So as we finished lunch i asked dad about his folks,  he said his dad (Stirling David ) was born in Prince Edward Island in Canada.  The Bowls Brothers where his cousins, they all grew up together, so they were first cousins.  Dad said he met Mrs Bowls for the first time in the 1960's, after his father (SD) passed away he (dad) and his mother (Sarah Evelyn) started going to PEI every year.    The Bowls brothers were farmers, and also fished, then they got into the motorization ......     This conversation was interrupted as Anna arrived to visit with mom.  She is so special, she comes twice a week and talks and plays cards and tries to do other things. It gives Dad time to do things like go out to lunch with the boys, which is where he went today.  He lunches with John Baraldi and that crew.  I will write about it eventually.


Monday, January 13, 2014

January 13, 2014

I went to lunch with my folks today. usually dad is pretty spunky and talkative when I quiz him.  The day i start writing down things he tells me no, I don't remember.  So, I got him to talk it out and he is just upset with his eldest daughter.  She upset him by arguing with him.  Funny thing is he doesn't remember what it was about.  I am not sure if I should be putting this out there, but she really needs to start taking care of herself.  Going to a doctor and then another doctor because you diagnosed yourself already and are shopping for one to agree with you is not taking care of yourself.  

So, I asked the question of when did you meet to my dad:   
In 1955 he played on a basketball team with the likes of Sonny Robbins.  According to my dad, they were a pretty darn good team.   They were an 'independent team' and played in YMCA leagues and the like.   
His coach, (I will add his name later)  (3/9/22:  I found my notes, his coach was Chuck Green)  and the sponsor of the basketball team, he invited the whole team (which was called the Mohawks)  to his nieces birthday party in Woburn, Mass.  ( I will add the girls name in later, it is quite an interesting story)   
At this party being thrown for a Green Street girl, was my mom and her twin.  They were friends with the Green Street Girl.   My dad asked mom if she would like to go out sometime and told her he would call her.   I do not have her name, but she lived on Green Street and was a friend of Roseanne's and Rose and her sister Mary Lou were at the party.  The basketball team was a YMCA league.   Grant asked Rose that night if she wanted to go out.   she told him, 'I'll call you"  ..  

That is all i Could get out of him today on that subject.   He is still not feeling good, he is on maintenance chemo and has had a rash reaction to it, but the doctor does not seem concerned.  He doesn't like the Cancer Doctor he is seeing right now.  I think she is fine, and I have no problem with her, but she is not my doctor and I think it is time to explore another doctor.   

He also talked about selling the house, maybe selling it to someone and being able to live there ....   I have to look into that.   

I am having a trying day... 
that is all for now
EAWP

October 28, 2021
I wish I had followed this up.   selling the house that is.  I wish I had followed this up.  it just saddens me when I read this.   Grant (dad) went off the chemo pills and eventually I had to fire the doctor.  I will find the dates and put them in ... but it was a checkup with Dr. Tungson at Lahey, she was his cancer doctor.    Grant had a visit with his primary doctor who had an x-ray done of his leg and ankle    the primary doctor told him it did not look right and had him make an appointment with his cancer doctor.  we did.   
we brought in the xrays (on a cd) with us and the cancer doctor (tunkson) came in with four interns.  Lahey is a teaching hospital.   she told my dad there was nothing wrong with him and the type of cancer he had did not go out to the extremities / or limbs.   i asked her to review the x rays, she tossed the cd onto the counter and said she did not need to look at the xrays, she read the radiologist report and did not feel it was anything.    I was shocked ...  i put my head in my hands as she threatened to put him in the hospital if he was in that much pain.  i waited for the bitch to leave with her minions and told my dad to say good bye to the girls at the desk because he was never coming back here.   took him to Dana Farber in Boston.   they kept my dad alive.   I truly believe he would have passed away within a month of that last visit to Lahey.